She's been running to the Married To The Mob blog for the past six years. In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. I know this might be hard for a lot of good guys to understand, but the classic saying about women loving jerks is true in a lot of cases. You would imagine most girls grow out of this after high school, but I know tons of women who suffer from the same poor judgement as adults. Sure, a guy who cuddles you to sleep every night and runs to the store to buy you ice cream when you have cramps is amazing, but is that what makes a woman's panties wet? Unfortunately not.
You never really understand a person await you consider things from his advantage of view…until you climb into his skin and walk around in it. Not when it comes to femininity and dating and women, anyway. Why does this matter? As a be in charge of, it is impossible to be advance at mating until you understand the subjective experience of a woman, as it is fundamentally different than yours in many ways. The differences advantage from the very beginning, at our deepest primal levels. When a be in charge of interacts with a woman, his greatest fear is sexual rejection and degradation.