Before you roll your eyes and sigh because I sound just like that stereotypical looks-are-the-only-thing-that-matter kind of guy, hear me out. Attraction is physical, emotional, relational, intellectual, and maybe even spiritual for some. Sure, a man wants to be with someone he finds physically attractive, but I think we all do. The problem comes when we feel that someone values our looks more than our personality or intellect or any other more substantial characteristic. Now I will concede that the first level of attraction that most guys recognize is physical beauty.
Conclusion your person is no easy assignment. And sometimes it feels like the dating pool is filled with also many frogs, not nearly enough princes thanks, Meghan Markle. Don't feel abysmal the next time you turn a big cheese down because the chemistry just isn't there. McMahan says initially women are drawn to men based on allure. Do I feel energized when I talk to this person? These are qualities that help to establish a foundation, to form a deeper association, and a relationship with this person, McMahan says. It's difficult to assemble a relationship with someone who's blocked off. This is a big individual, because it has three parts.