Print with images and other media Print text only Print Cancel Question: Am I being unfaithful to my partner if I fantasise about other people or sexual situations during sex? Answer: This is a question clients frequently ask. They often feel as though they are being disloyal or unfaithful to their partner in some way if they have fantasies in their head while being intimate. We are all sexual beings and nearly all of us have fantasies — they serve to create desire and arousal and in some cases but definitely not all they can be inspirational. Meet Tanya Koens Clinical and somatic sexologist and relationship counsellor Tanya Koens answers your questions on those tricky issues many of us experience in and outside the bedroom. A survey of 1, people by a British sex toy company found an average of 44 per cent of people fantasised about someone else when having sex. However, the context of those fantasies wasn't clear.
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