We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article. But actually the opposite is often true, and society is finally catching on. I'm a bisexual man. I've had sex with men, women and long lasting relationships with both. Personally, I have no preference. If I find someone entertaining or sexy I'll go for it, we'll work out what's going on in the bedroom when we get there. To me having sex with a woman is amazing and having sex with a man is amazing for different reasons. Yet many people believe that being bisexual and having sex with men will somehow put women off, as though your masculinity is somehow defined by the gender of the people you date.
So as to was just a phase. I've barely ever been with my boyfriend after that one woman, so it was a big deal when I wrote along that I was bisexual on so as to form. At least for me; it was the first time I had identified myself in that way. A year or so later, when I got pregnant, we went back all the rage to the doctor to confirm after that after we had heard our baby's heartbeat for the first time, seen that it was a real body, that our lives were about en route for change, the nurse comes in en route for do my examination my boyfriend had left at this point and tells me in a sly voice, 'I guess we can cross the bisexual off your chart, can't we? I grew up in a Christian, careful family. My parents never said so as to homosexuality was wrong, but they by no means really said it was OK also. I think they didn't want en route for address it. But my church made it clear to me as a young person that it was barely OK to be straight. Since I was attracted to boys, I a minute ago assumed I was straight and ignored the attraction I felt for girls.
Although the first time I watched a film or tv show and felt sexually attracted to the person arrange the screen, it was a female — a scene in American Meat pie, I think! So I had two things to worry about! I felt lonely and bottled everything up. I decided that the only thing so as to would make it better was en route for talk about it.