Brain flapping Science Can women get sex whenever they like? In a guest post, Girl on the Net ponders the supposed inequality of sexual opportunity. A man walks into a bar and offers sex to anyone who's interested and is laughed out of the room. A woman walks into a bar and does the same and she's inundated with horny suitors. Is this really how it works? Being constantly chatted up by strange men in a bar would probably drive anyone to drink.